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Updated March 20, 2024

Hours and times vary depending on the event.

RAM NYC hosts special gay and bisexual dance and gear parties to party the night away to!

New York,
New York, United States

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Step aside world, there's a new RAM in town, and it's not the one in your computer! Presented by Daddy Ersin, "RAM" isn't just a gathering – it's a dance and party spectacle! RAM NYC is held once a month and is a fetish and gear party oriented towards bisexual and gay men.

They also travel to scintillating cities like New York City, Miami, Fort Lauderdale and Dallas (just to name a few) get special treatment every month with these saucy soirees.

What To Wear

Wondering what to wear? Forget that classic black tie, and instead, think jocks, speedos, thongs, or leather and harnesses, but think bold and fun. If it's a fetish or gear that makes you feel fabulous, then it's welcome here! From thrilling late-night dance-offs where the beats are as hot as the crowd, to sun-kissed pool parties, RAM keeps the excitement dial turned up to eleven.

Events

But don’t be fooled by the naughty name; RAM is as versatile as they come. Tea dances for the lovers of the sun, festive-themed shindigs for the holiday enthusiasts and party lovers, and an array of special events sure to keep even the most avid party-goers on their toes. Dance parties galore are here for all your pleasure. Check their website and socials for the full listing of events and agenda.

Crowd

Now, who's in the spotlight? Picture a fusion of gay and bisexual men, a delightful mix of audacious men 20s to the seasoned 40s. So, to all the adventurous souls out there, don't just hear about it; experience it. RAM is rolling into a city near you – gear up and get ready to dance the night (or day) away!

Popular Gay Bars in Town

TOOLBOX, Julius', The Dickens, GYM Sportsbar, and VERS.

Other LGBTQ+ Events in NYC

NYC Pride, The Black Party, AIDS Walk New York, and Masterbeat.

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The address for this event varies. To get the most up-to-date location information please visit the official website or official social media pages below.


Crowd

  • 21+
  • Bears
  • Bisexual
  • Cruising
  • Fetish
  • Gay
  • Leather

Music

  • Dance
  • EDM
  • Electropop
  • Techno
  • Top 40

Dates & Hours

Hours and times vary depending on the event. You may find more up-to-date information by visiting an official website and/or social media.

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